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A Guide to Baby-Led Weaning

In the UK, three in five first-time parents find weaning confusing and, almost two-thirds have heard conflicting advice about when to introduce solid foods, and every baby has a unique weaning journey.

Baby-led weaning offers a popular alternative to puree feeding for many parents. Lots of mums and dads find that it helps their little one to learn new skills and allows them to enjoy exploring new flavours.

Let's run through the details of baby-led weaning and answer some of the most frequently asked questions on the topic. That way, you can decide if it's the right weaning method for you and your baby.

What is baby-led weaning?

Baby-led weaning (BLW) means letting your child eat independently. First, they will use their hands, then move on to using cutlery. The term was created in 2001 by Gill Rapley, and describes a relaxed and unstructured approach where babies are offered solid foods and feed themselves. The food is usually served in small, soft pieces that can be held in the baby's hand, rather than being offered as pureed on a spoon.

We know that choosing a weaning style can feel daunting, so read on to learn all about the benefits of baby-led weaning, when to start, and what kind of foods you can offer at every stage.

The benefits of baby-led weaning

Yes, it can be a little messier than traditional weaning, but there are tons of pros when it comes to baby-led weaning! These include:

  • Improved fine motor, chewing, and hand-eye coordination skills.
  • It's easier to prepare meals, as baby can eat the same foods as the whole family.
  • Your little one gets a full sensory experience and develops good eating habits as they explore, inspect, and taste different flavours and textures.
  • They develop independence because they're in control. They'll also recognise when they're full and when to stop eating.
  • Making homemade baby food lets you be sure of exactly what's gone into your little one's meal.
  • It makes picky eating and mealtime battles less likely.
  • Baby-led weaning teaches your little one to recognise when they're full and regulate how much they eat, meaning it could potentially lower the risk of childhood obesity.

When to start baby-led weaning

Weaning typically starts at around six months, but it's important to look out for certain cues that will let you know if your baby is ready or not. These include:

  • Staying in a sitting position and holding their head steady.
  • Coordinating their eyes, hands, and mouth so they're able to look at food, pick it up, and put it in their mouth.
  • Swallowing food (rather than spitting or pushing it out).
  • Making mouthing movements as they watch others eat and showing an interest in food.

How to start baby-led weaning

Instead of spoon-feeding, baby-led weaning involves setting out soft finger foods in front of your little one on a table or highchair tray and letting them take control!

To help you get started, here are our top tips for baby-led weaning success:

  • Continue to offer breast milk or formula feeds when weaning. Breast milk or formula should be their main drink for the first 12 months. This is where most of your baby's nutrition and hydration will come from as you begin introducing them to solid foods. It's a good idea to give them these feeds after they've eaten solid foods because their tummy will fill up quickly.
  • Offer water in small amounts during mealtimes from the age of six months. Water can be served in an open cup from six months old to help baby develop their oral motor skills.
  • Introduce one new food each day for your baby to explore. This way, they have a variety of foods and discover more options they enjoy. It also means you can see what kind of foods or shapes they prefer.
  • Lay a wipe-clean tablecloth under the highchair to catch any mess. At first, you may find that your baby creates a real mess during mealtimes. But that's all part of the process.
  • Offer your baby food, rather than giving it to them. Put it in front of them or let them take it from your hand so that the decision is theirs.
  • Involve your baby in your mealtimes. If it's suitable, you can give them the same meal that you're eating in a smaller portion. This will help them learn to copy you. Just remember to avoid adding extra salt or sugar to your baby's food.
  • Schedule mealtimes for when your baby isn't tired or too hungry. That way, they can concentrate on learning new skills.
  • Many babies eat only small amounts for the first few months of baby-led weaning. For them, these early mealtimes are about discovering and learning rather than eating. You'll know when your baby is finished eating if they turn their head away and shut their mouth. If they show these signs, don't keep feeding them and trust their cues. They'll let you know when they're feeling peckish again!
  • Keep smiling, enjoying, and paying attention. If you keep it enjoyable, your baby will be keen to try new foods and look forward to mealtimes. Weaning is a very short time in your child's life, so have a camera ready to capture their first gummy, carroty smiles!

How to do baby-led weaning safely

When they're first getting started, lots of parents wonder "is baby-led weaning dangerous?". One recent study found there's no increased choking risk for babies who feed themselves solid food compared to spoon-fed babies.  Therefore, baby-led weaning is no more dangerous.

Often, babies are not choking when they eat but gagging. Gagging may look similar to choking and can be scary, but they're entirely different. So, it can help to know what to look out for.

Gagging is caused by your baby's gag reflex. This is natural safety mechanism we have to help prevent choking. Your little one may also gag on foods they're trying for the first time. This is because their taste buds aren't yet used to these new flavours and textures.

Gagging is sometimes mistaken for choking. But don't worry, gagging is a perfectly normal part of tasting new foods. If your baby is gagging, don't try to help them or prevent them from being sick, because this can cause them to choke.

Signs of gagging can include...

  • Loudly gurgling, coughing, or sputtering
  • Regurgitating swallowed food back into their mouth, spitting up or vomiting
  • Baby thrusting their tongue forward
  • Baby's face turning red.

It's always important for parents to know the signs of choking, too. These include...

  • Having difficulty breathing or coughing
  • Having a terrified expression on their face
  • Making high-pitched noises while breathing
  • Face and lips that turn blue  
  • Struggling to make a sound.

To keep your little one safe while weaning...

  • Sit them upright, facing the table, either on your lap or in a highchair. Make sure they can sit steadily and can use their hands and arms freely.
  • Never leave them alone with food and always monitor them at mealtimes.
  • Talk to your health advisers if your family has a history of food intolerance, digestive issues, allergies, or any other concerns about your baby's health or development.
  • Some parents worry about their baby's nutrient and energy intake when baby-led weaning. However, numerous studies show that babies take in enough energy with this weaning approach.